2015: ‘Youth Development Is President Jonathan’s Top Priority’ – Aide

President Goodluck Jonathan has reiterated his mission to focus on youth development and capacity building as his priority if voted into office for second term.

Speaking at a meeting held with the youth leaders in Benin –City on Saturday, December 27, 2014, Senior Special Assistant on Youths and Students Affairs, Mr. Jude Imagwe, said that the Federal Government had laid the foundation on youths development in the first term of President Jonathan’s administration, stating that the second term bid was to actualize and consolidate on the achievements made so far.

The president also urged Nigerian youths to stay away from crime and support the Federal Government as it provides the enabling environment for them to succeed, the President identified that the excesses of Nigerian youth and unethical restiveness in some parts of the country as a deterrent to development the nation.

“With the policies and programmes initiated by Jonathan’s administration, there is hope for youths in the country. We have programmes such as YOUWIN, Youth Employment in Agriculture programmes and many others. In life, we have every right, as growing people, to get ourselves involved or associated with anything that makes us happy”, he said.

“But in whatever we do, we must realize that in becoming that man you want to be tomorrow, you must stay alive, because if the man you want to be tomorrow, had died yesterday, you certainly will not have somebody you want to be like. Another thing I want us to understand is to believe in ourselves. A whole lot of us give up on ourselves. We believe we have tried and had failed. Many among us today or even among those sitting with us, failed several times yesterday but they refused to allow their failure defect who they were.

“Our challenge does not defer who we are but it is our hope that makes us who we are. These challenges will always be there but when this hope is strong, it will give us a reason to identify our challenges.

“Our hope will give us a reason to confront our challenges and our hope will give us the strength to address these challenges and this is what makes us who we are. I advise the students to be careful of what they think and the thoughts they allow to settle in their minds because an issue that is not addressed today, will certainly disgrace you tomorrow” he advised.

He further urged the youths to support President Jonathan in the 2015 general election so as for this administration to complete its task.

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NEW MUSIC: "CANCER" BY SEAN PAYNE

Real name Sean Collins Emeason hails from Imo state grew up in the northern part of Nigeria "Sokoto" later moved to Abuja but currently in Lagos. Aside composing songs he's also a song writer, SEAN PAYNE decided to hook up a #banger. "CANCER" produced by ZIKAY, all I can say is seanpayne is definitely an act to watch out for.

@seansugah

 

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Dont Get It Twisted! 21 Signs It’s Just Sex… Not A Relationship

I hear so many of my friends talking about how they met a guy and had wonderful sex and then the guy only calls or comes by when he wants sex. OK honey what you need to know is that what you had with him was a physical attraction that magnified feelings of a deeper nature. Now let me make myself clear he is not a bad guy, for the most part, he was simply thinking “it’s just sex what’s the harm in that”. So here are some super signs to look for to see if it is just sex:

1. Every Time You See Each Other It’s Only to Have Sex

So many women and men are having this type of relationship thinking that it’s more and it’s not. It’s Just Sex.

2. Only Comes over at Night

They call you around 10 pm or later asking if you can come over or if they can come over around midnight. A lot of people think “oh they are just really busy” no they are calling for a booty call. It’s Just Sex.

3. Doesn’t Want to Go Out Anywhere

Yes staying at home is nice sometimes but there is a whole world outside of the bedroom. It’s Just Sex

4. Never Talks about Family And Friends

Think, do you even know if their parents are alive, do they have siblings. If you don’t know it might just be sex.

5. Doesn’t Want to Hear about Your Family And Friends

Are you bummed out about your family and want to talk about it and they don’t want to hear about it. It could be just sex

6. Phone Conversations Or Text Messages Are Only in a Sexual Nature

Do you only swap sexy texts or photos? Some relationships are like this but others are Just Sex.

7. You Only Meet at Places Where Sex Can Occur

Only going to their house/apartment or vice verse might just be sex.

8. No Sleepovers

They come over at midnight have sex and then around 2 am they want to go home or send you home. Oh yeah it’s just sex.

9. You Don’t Eat Together

Ever hear that old saying “a couple that eats together stays together”.

10. They Take a Shower Right after Sex And Send You on Your Way

Normally you want to rest a bit and maybe talk. When they all of a sudden they want you to leave it’s probably just sex.

11. Never Talk about Life outside The Bedroom

There are so many other things going on that you could talk about.

12. You Only Have a Cell Phone Or Beeper Number

It could be Just Sex

13. When You Talk It’s Only to Setup a Sex Time

Ever call then and setup a time to meet and you end up having sex. It’s Just Sex.

14. They Avoid You in Public

You see them and you know they saw you and they turn away. It’s Just Sex.

15. Only Spends a Couple of Hours with You

Only spend enough time with you to have sex. Then It’s Just Sex.

16. There Is No Quality Time

No matter how busy he says he is, if was serious about the two of you he’d make an effort to spend time with you outside the bedroom.

17. He Keeps His Distance

He makes sure the two of you never get too close emotionally by keeping things from you. If you tell him you like it when he does a certain something, he’ll stop because he wants to keep things casual emotionally.

18. He Tells You So

Has he ever straight-up told you that he’s not interested in anything serious and just wants to play the field? He wouldn’t be saying these things if it weren’t true!

19. You Initiate All Communication

If it’s not about sex, all communication is likely to come from you. Are you the only one suggesting dates? Are you the only one who tries to start a real conversation when the two of you are together?

20. He Doesn’t Care If He Hurts Your Feelings

If you get visibly upset about the lack of communication or closeness between you two and doesn’t care, he probably doesn’t care about you, either.

21. He Cheats

Or should I say he has multiple sex partners that he’s not very private about. If the guy is openly having sex with multiple partners, it is definitely not a relationship.

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6 Manly Qualities Women ABSOLUTELY Love In Men

There are certain qualities in men that women absolutely dig.

It’s not just about being tall, dark and handsome. There are certain ‘manly’ qualities about guys that can make any woman go weak in her knees. And while you may think it’s all about the looks, guess what? There’s more. It’s a potent mix of both, physical attributes and of course, that all important emotional touch. Here, we tell you about six points you need to heed.

1. Well groomed
Yes, we said tall but the reality is that height is really not as important a factor as how you present yourself. Just like guys like a women who is well turned out, women too dig guys who ensure that they are perfectly groomed a la Leonardo DiCaprio. The basic funda women believe in is that if you are careful enough to take care of yourself, they can trust you to take care of them. So, remember guys, sloppy dressing, uncombed hair, dirty nails, smelly socks, stained shirts or jeans and the likes are an absolute no-no when you are trying to make that all important impression on someone from the opposite sex.

2. A sense of style
Women would rather have you splurging on them than on obscenely priced designer wear. So, even if it’s a typical roadside purchase that you swear by, make sure you adopt a certain classy and stylised look and maintain it. Women don’t really expect you to be a picture copy of a Pierce Brosnan or a David Beckham, but trying to imitate their style will surely up your popularity quotient. Keep yourself updated on the latest trends. Also, just as you have your reservations against the ‘nun-type’ dressers, women too hesitate when it comes to the boring office type dresser.

3. Laugh it out 
One of the most important trait that woman dig is a sense of humour. Women have more than enough problems to deal with and don’t really need the company of another equally depressed soul. Yes, you have your bad days, but it does go a long way if you have a good sense of humour, and clean humour at that. Beware, taking a dig at others and constantly putting others down do not really spell fun for women. And we can’t tell you enough how much women love people who can laugh at themselves and their own mistakes.

4. Show them you care 
Women need to be constantly reassured that they are loved and cared for. Acts like holding their hand while walking down the road, watching the sunset, an occasional hug and peck on the cheeks and making sure that they cross the road safely mean that you are proud to be seen with them and care for them. Remember, not displaying your affection openly is a sign that you are ashamed of who you are with. However, beware of being crass while displaying you affections.

5. A sexy smile/wink 
There’s a reason why women absolutely adore Richard Gere or Hugh Jackman and it has a lot to do with the way that they smile or that glint in their eyes. Believe us when we tell you that if you look at them and smile like that, it does make them feel very special, like they are one in a million.

6. Be calm 
Woman are known to be harrowed and frenzied. Yes, they do tend to get hyper very easily and that is the precise reason why you need to be the calming factor in their lives. It really doesn’t help if you too get stressed out or fly off the handle at any and every incident. Your sex appeal lies as much in your looks as it does in your attitude – women dig guys with a cool and peaceful attitude, the one who is able to calm them down and reassure them that all is well.

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Pastor Sings Pharrell Song ‘Happy’, Then Drops Dead On The Pulpit (PICTURED)

We’ve all seen strange things happen in our churches and the churches of others. This might be one of the strangest things we’ve ever seen. It’s tragic to discuss, but somewhat uplifting when you consider that this man had an extraordinary life and died in a moment of “Happy-ness.” Let’s get to the story.
A fruitful Sunday sermon concluded in a saddening incident when a pastor, after singing the smash-hit song, “Happy” by Pharell Williams, suddenly collapsed and died right in the pulpit.

Pastor Gordon A Humphrey was a member of Shiloh Missionary Baptist Church of Chicago and lost his life suddenly for reasons that are still uncertain.

According to the report by Christian Post, the minister was preaching when he surprisingly dropped to his feet. Witnesses believe that it was a heart attack which led to the pastor’s demise. As the pastor collapsed, the congregants called the authorities for health assistance. However, the paramedics could no longer revive him.

Pastor Gordon A Humphrey

A LIFE OF SERVICE

Co-pastor Greg Hunter shares in the mourning of the people Pastor Humphrey left behind. In his statement, he assures the public that the pastor’s last moments on Earth were allotted for the things that he loved doing. He died serving the Lord through his ministry and teaching people the word of God.

Apart from the Church in Chicago, two other churches where Humphrey pastors also take part in the grief of the loss. They include the Olivet Church in Stockton, California, and the Olivet of Oakland. They are now in search of the pastor’s replacement.

PRAYERS AND PRAISES FOR THE PASTOR

After the untimely tragedy, help came not only through visits and financial support. Messages of condolences also flooded the Shiloh Missionary Facebook page. Various members of other Churches shared posts of the sorrow for demise of the beloved preacher.

Maybe this is a reminder that we are all living on God’s time, and you never know when you’re going to be called to heaven. So, because you don’t know what day will be your last, make sure you spend the remainder of your days being HAPPY. May the pastor rest in peace.

(Hattip: Charisma News)

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8 Super Ways To Become A Good Kisser

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A good kiss can lead to better and hotter things as they progress. To be a sensational kisser, you have to be in control.Gently and softly: Suppose you and your partner have just started kissing and you are about to shift your gears to a deeper kiss, then you should gently start to take the lead by placing your hands on either side of her face and guiding your lips in. When you cup her face in your palms during the kiss, you control the amount of pressure of your mouth on her and she also feels the warmth of your hand on her skin.

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Be vocal: You should be at least a little vocal during your lovemaking and post lovemaking about how kissing her turns you on. You should let her know that she has an exciting effect on you and her breath makes you all the more crazy for her. It is important to not only tell your girl how gorgeous she is, but also that she is great kisser. Women also do have egos and flattery hurts no one.

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Your mind matters: Strive to give the right pressure of your lips on hers. You do not have to have luscious lips, you do not have to be Mr. Macho and you do not have to have a flat stomach and cute butt. These are not qualifications to be a good kisser. What is needed is the interest to make your woman feel nice. Your mind is the biggest sex organ and your lips are the twin warriors in the game of love and lust.

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Practice: Practice makes you perfect. To incorporate new kissing techniques, you can look in a mirror and watch yourself kiss your arm or hand. Imagine how the heat of her lips will feel on yours, how arousing her breath will be, how sweet her saliva will taste and try to imagine every texture and aspect of her lips. This may sound silly but when you are totally in it and concentrate on the sensation, you will get more confidence and flow during the actual kiss.

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Be romantic: A woman’s body is the free range of sensitive zones, which are kiss worthy. You can kiss her earlobe or graze your lips behind her ears. You can softly place your lips on the tip of her nose and give her a cute kiss. The kiss, which you can lay on the back of her neck, can be really romantic to her.

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Don’t hurt her: You make sure that in deep kissing (French kissing), you do not cause hurt to her. She should not pass out by the force of your kisses. You should tilt your head to one side while kissing so that her nose is not blocked.

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Maintain good breath: A good kisser is recognized for his sexy breath. Stay away from odorous food like onions, garlic, fish etc. when you know you will kiss her. Make sure that you brush your teeth or floss before going out on a date with her. If you have to eat a meal with her, see that you have a mint with you that you can pop in after you have finished eating.

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Tongue magic: An exceptional kisser is skilled at French kissing. He is confident that the magic of his tongue can do to amazing things to any woman. As an exceptional kisser, try and keep her guessing about your moves. Kiss her a little, look at her eyes and stroke her face or hair. Then go for a lip-lock again as you caress her sweet spots. Leave her lips and look at her with wanton lust or desire. You will see the same sort of magnetism in her eyes because she has been left high and dry for a moment.

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Dear Men, This Could Be The ONE Habit Keeping You From Becoming A Husband

Dudes’ X-rated online habits could be keeping them from becoming husbands, according to a new study published in Germany’s The Institute for the Study of Labor.

For the study, researchers analyzed survey data collected between 2000 and 2004 from 1,512 American men, ages 18 to 35, about their Internet usage. The researchers looked into how many hours the guys spent online and whether they had gone online to watch porn in the last 30 days. Then, the researchers measured the correlation between those two factors and the marriage rates of the participants.

After controlling for the men’s age, religion, income, and other variables, the researchers discovered a negative relationship between time spent online and marriage rates and an even stronger negative relationship between online porn usage and marriage rates.

Though the researchers don’t say that porn is causing marriage rates to take a dive, they do write that this study is evidence that there is a strong association between X-rated viewing and not tying the knot.

So what could be so awesome about porn that it makes men postpone or rethink getting serious with a human instead of a computer? In their study, the authors suggest that porn might fulfill a dude’s sexual desires whenever he wants so he doesn’t feel like he has to get married to satisfy that need.

Interesting argument, huh? Then again, there’s also a good possibility that the survey results turned out the way they did because married men just watch less Internet porn than single guys. This study doesn’t rule that out. Plus, anytime scientists use self-reported data, there’s always a chance that many of the participants could be underestimating or overestimating their answers.

Not to mention, while this study seems to imply that porn can be a detriment to IRL relationships, sexy flicks can also spice up a relationship. In fact, a survey released this year found that 59 percent of women have watched porn during sex—here are three reasons to watch porn with your partner.

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Valid Reasons Why NOBODY Should Vote For Buhari – Fani-Kayode

Former minister of Aviation, Femi-Fani Kayode has described the emergence of Major General Mohammadu Buhari (rtd.) as the presidential flag bearer of the All Progressives Congress, APC, as laughable.
He took to Facebook to share his thoughts on the outcome of the APC primaries publicly kicking against the choice of Buhari.

His message reads:

Major General Mohammadu Buhari has emerged as the APC flagbearer and President Goodluck Jonathan has emerged for the PDP. Now the battle for the soul and future of our nation begins. The forces of light shall surely prevail over the forces of darkness and God’s counsel alone shall stand over Nigeria. I stand with Jonathan. Let’s get it on.

”Jihadi groups killed more than 5,000 people last month, with Iraq topping the league table of deaths, followed by Nigeria, Afghanistan and Syria.
In 664 incidents recorded in November by the BBC World Service and researched jointly with King’s College London, the overall death toll was 5,042, or an average of 168 deaths per day and nearly twice the number of people who were killed in the 11 September 2001 attacks on America.
After Iraq, Nigeria, Afghanistan and Syria, Yemen was fifth in the deadly league table, tying with Somalia, with 37 incidents each”- DORO ADEBENTLEY 11 December, Facebook.
All this and some people still say they want Buhari as President? A man who said, only last year, that ”an attack on Boko Haram is an attack on the north”? A man who said, in 2001, that he wants to ”spread sharia throughout the federation”? A man who said, in 2001, that muslims should only vote for muslims”? A man who said, in 2001, that ”why should christians be concerned when muslims cut off their limbs under sharia”?. A man who said, in 2001, that ”after all the limbs that are being cut off are muslim ones and not christian so why should the christians bother about it”?

This is the man that some Nigerians are clamouring for to be their President? May God open their eyes and protect them from themselves. May He grant them wisdom and discernment.

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13-Year-Old Female Suicide Bomber Arrested Wearing Explosive Vest In Kano Market (PHOTO)

Kano State Police Command on Wednesday, December 24, 2014 arrested a 13- year-old female suicide bomber with explosives attached to her body, police reports.

The young suicide bomber, Zahra’u Babban Gida, according to reports, hails from Damaturu, Yobe and has allegedly confessed that she was initiated into Boko Haram by her parents, who live in Bauchi State.

The state’s Commissioner of Police, Mr. Aderenle Shinaba, told journalist that the arrest of the 13-yeald old bomber and her accomplice can be credited to the existing synergy among the police, the DSS, Army, Airforce, Customs, Immigration, Prisons and NSCDC.

He added that the girl was apprehended based on suspicion of her movements around the market.

Shinaba also discards the suggestions that that female suicide bombers were from Igbo tribe as he said such rumours were unfounded.

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Man Eats 160 EGGS In 40 Minutes To Commemorate Christmas (PHOTO)

A Chinese man, Pan Yizhong, ate 160 eggs in less than 40 minutes to commemorate the Christmas season.

The 46-year-old man has disclosed that he is in good health and plans to take up higher challenges in future.

The competitive eater who wore a red and white Santa hat sat down and shoved 150 quail eggs and 10 chicken eggs down his throat in less than 40 minutes on Tuesday, December 23, 2014  in a restaurant located at central China’s Hunan province.

Yizhong said the season “seemed like an appropriate time to eat eggs” because the homophone for “egg” was contained in the Chinese word for  Christmas “Shengdanjie.”

Speaking to AFP, the man said, “At the time I got to 160, I was becoming tired of the flavour so I stopped. It wasn’t because I was full.”

Yizhong, the most celebrated exponent of the art of competitive eating in China, has previously dispatched 147 dumplings in a single sitting and once polished off 40 bowls of noodles in 15 minutes.

He said: “Now I’m back to normal, I’ve had ice cream and barbecued meat since.

“As a competitive eater, I want to test my limits eating all kinds of food.

“I never tried eating so many eggs before, and I feel I still haven’t reached my limit.”

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‘God is with us as a nation': President Jonathan’s Christmas Message To Nigerians [READ]

CHRISTMAS MESSAGE TO THE NATION FROM GOODLUCK EBELE JONATHAN, GCFR, PRESIDENT, FEDERAL REPUBLIC OF NIGERIA, DECEMBER 25, 2014.

Dear Compatriots,

I greet and felicitate with you all once again as we celebrate the birth of our Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ. I join all of our Christian compatriots in giving thanks to God Almighty for the divine gift of Jesus Christ the Messiah whose earthly incarnation we commemorate today.

As we celebrate the birth of Jesus Christ who the Prophet Isaiah heralded as the Prince of Peace and Wonderful Counselor, I believe it is very appropriate that we all, Christians and non-Christians alike, reflect more deeply on the virtues and ideals which the Messiah espoused during his earthly mission.

To my mind, there can be no doubt that the greater internalization of the virtues of love for our fellowmen, tolerance, Godliness, honesty, fairness to others, selflessness, and peaceful co-existence with others, by all adult Nigerians, and the inculcation of the same in our youth,  will definitely help our dear nation to overcome most of its present challenges.

Peace and love for others, especially, were a constant refrain in the Messiah’s teachings and admonitions to mankind.

Therefore, as we celebrate his birth, I urge all Nigerians to offer special prayers for a greater manifestation of divine peace in our country and the vanquishing of all demons of hatred, divisiveness and disunity in our midst.

As we celebrate Christmas, let us also remember and offer special prayers for all of our countrymen, women and children who have suffered and continue to suffer untold hardship, deprivation and death at the hands of terrorists and insurgents.

Let us also continue to pray for our gallant soldiers and security agents who remain at the forefront of the national effort to overcome terrorism and violent extremism, even as the rest of the nation celebrates Christmas and the coming New Year.

In this season of goodwill, I urge all patriotic Nigerians to rededicate themselves to doing all within their powers to support the brave men and women of our armed forces in the ongoing war against terrorism, and also support the Federal Government’s efforts to provide more succour to the hapless victims of terrorist atrocities.

The Victims’ Support Fund which we have established to raise additional funds to assist our compatriots who have been adversely affected by continuing insecurity in parts of our country remains active.

I call on all individuals and corporate organisations who have not yet done so, to donate more generously to the Fund which is being efficaciously deployed to ease the sufferings of victims of terrorist violence in the country.

Dear Compatriots, we are also celebrating this Christmas against the background of preparations for next year’s general elections.

I seize this opportunity to reassure the nation that my administration will give the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) all necessary support to ensure that it delivers very free, fair, credible and acceptable elections in 2015.

National security agencies will also be given all necessary support to enhance their ability to ensure that the elections which should strengthen democracy in our country are peaceful and violence free.

I urge our political class to be law- abiding and place the greater interests of our nation above all personal or sectional interests in the countdown to the elections.

Let us all be more statesman-like, conduct issues-based campaigns, and eschew the promotion of falsehood, division and hatred of others as we seek the votes of our countrymen in what should be a peaceful competition among contending points of view for the progress and development of our dear nation.

I remain convinced that God Almighty is still  with us as a nation even in the midst of our current challenges which we shall surely overcome with greater unity of purpose, dedication, commitment and perseverance.

Let this year’s celebration of the birth of Christ the Messiah rekindle, strengthen and reaffirm our faith in our national ability to overcome all challenges, with God on our side.

I wish you all very happy Christmas celebrations.

Goodluck Ebele Jonathan, GCFR

President,

Federal Republic of Nigeria.

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Guys, 10 Sex Moves Every Woman Craves In Bed [EXPLICIT CONTENT]

10. Give her breasts more attention

Lots of guys pamper a woman’s breasts during foreplay but forget about them during the main event, which is a shame because the extra stimulation can lead to a bigger orgasm for her. Plus, it’s important to pay attention to more than just her nipples, since her entire breast is packed with nerves, especially the underside. When she’s on top, use your fingertips to draw wide, slow circles, starting around the perimeter of one breast and spiraling in until you’re just about at her nipple. Then use your hand to cup and lift the underside of her breast, and lick around her nipple before covering it entirely with your mouth and sucking gently.

9. Give her a G-Spot orgasm

 This much-talked-about area is located about 2 inches inside her vaginal canal on the front wall. Some docs say it’s spongy and the size of a dime, but it can be hard to feel, so just stimulate that general area during sex and you may give her a more intense orgasm. To hit it with your penis, try modified doggie-style. Instead of having her keep her arms straight with her palms on the bed, ask her to lower herself onto her elbows. Holding her hips for balance, thrust slowly at first and then up the intensity. With each stroke, your penis will rub against the front wall of her vagina, stimulating that special spot.

8. Surprise her with a quickie

When you jump her out of the blue, it makes her feel like she’s so irresistible that you simply can’t wait to have her. Right when she gets home, pull her in for a deep kiss to get her going. Relieve her of any bags she’s carrying and lead her to the couch, bed, or kitchen table, where you will have already stashed a bottle of lube nearby. Don’t totally undress her; just lift up her skirt or pull down her pants. Then use your lubed fingers to massage her clitoris while whispering how hot she is in her ear. The more aroused you are, the faster she’ll get into it. (Of course, there will be times when she’s not game. If that happens, let it go and try another night.)

7. Gently pull her hair

There are thousands of nerves in the scalp, and when she’s aroused, they’re more sensitive, so pulling on her tresses feels extra stimulating. But there’s a catch: If you do it while you’re having sex with her from behind, it’ll make her feel like you’re treating her like a hooker. Instead, while she’s on top, run your hand through her hair, grab a handful of strands close to her scalp, and give it a little pull. This works especially well when you’re having intense, passionate sex, because grabbing her anywhere, especially somewhere sensitive, adds to the feeling that she’s being ravished.

6. Talk dirty to her

Women are verbal creaturesand our love of words extends to the bedroom. Unfortunately, most of what you may have heard guys say in porn is all wrong (Ask “Who’s your daddy” and you just might get a slap across the face). What your partner does want to hear are phrases that let her know how turned on you are, how much you love her body, and how good you want to make her feel (see this month’s CFG Sex Map for more tips). And even more important than what you say is the way you say it—when she can hear the burning lust in your voice, her thighs pretty much catch on fire.

5. Nibble on her neck

The skin that stretches from underneath her ear to her collarbone is very thin, making it supersensitive to touch. Start out by using your tongue to lick from her ear down to where her neck and shoulders meet. Then blow along the trail you just left. The warmth of your tongue coupled with the coolness of your breath will shoot tingles all over her body. After that, get a little more aggressive, and lightly nip the bottom of her neck (the skin is slightly thicker here and can take more pressure). You should suck on her neck too, but for just a second and not hard enough to leave a markhickeys are so high school.

4. Bring her to climax with oral

A luxurious oral-sex session allows her to kick back and enjoy being spoiled. (Sound familiar?) But different techniques may feel more or less pleasurable to her on different days. To figure out what’s going to work best for her each time, be sure to use a variety of moves. Try licking softly, sucking, and using a firm, pointed tongue and then a wide, soft one, and take note of which she responds to the most enthusiastically. When you sense that she’s about to orgasm—her body will tense up and she’ll start breathing more quickly—go back to the move that elicited the biggest moans, and continue doing it until she climaxes.

3. Touch her hot spot midaction

Most women can’t orgasm during intercourse without clitoral stimulation, which is probably why so many want more of it! Whenever your hand can reach her clitoris (girl-on-top and spooning from behind are two great positions for access), you should rub her hot spot. Your touches should be slow and soft in the beginning, progressing to harder and quicker. When it comes to technique, every woman is different, so you have to experiment: Try one finger pressed directly on her clitoris, three fingers over the entire area, or the heel of your hand on her pubic mound—her moans will tell you when you have it right.

2. Kiss her during sex

If you’re like most guys, once intercourse starts, you probably stop kissing her. That’s a bad move, since kissing makes sex feel more intimate for her, which is crucial to female pleasure. Pick a position that allows you to be face-to-face, like missionary, or have her sit on your lap, then mix up your smooches so they mirror the mood of the sex you’re having. If you’re going at it like gangbusters, pull her in for a deep, tongue-filled kiss—try sucking on her bottom lip and pressing your lips firmly against hers. When things are slow and romantic, go with a more sensual kiss.

1. Be more aggressive

The number one thing women want is for you to be more aggressive in bed. That means handling her body with strength and confidence, which can be insanely erotic for her. And it doesn’t require a lot of work or advanced skills on your part. In fact, doing just one take-charge thing can spike her arousal level. A few to try: In missionary, take her wrists and hold them above her head, pinned to the mattress. When she’s on top, hold her hips and push/pull them back and forth, so her clitoris grinds against your pubic bone. And when you want to change positions, don’t do it slowly or politely—grab her and put her where you want her.

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MUST READ: HOW TO AVOID AND STRAP OFF THE FRIENDZONE

The Friend-Zone
FRIEND-ZONE!!!Have you been there? I just hope you haven’t because it is the craziest zone you can ever crash into. For a girl, its a nappy place, having a guy to sit with and talk to about anything, that’s absolutely fantastic. But for a guy, it is the worst place to be especially when he likes the girl.
Recognizing You’re In The Friend Zone:
The Friend Zone is a very interesting place to say the least. The Friend Zone like being trapped in a lesbian bar you can look all you want but you ain’t getting a whiff of that pussy my nigga. When you meet a chick you gotta stay alert so you don’t trip up and land in the friend zone.
Here’s a few situations where you can tell you’re in the friend zone. She got a boyfriend and you trying to get that side nigga box, I see you *daps* but every time you try to make a move she hit you with that “Stoppppp you like a brother to me” Brah you so deep in the friend zone you her Maid of Honor.


Or if y’all be texting and you try to turn the conversation sexual with a “��������” and she tell you she’ll text you later and she text you later changing the subject you never gone taste her brah. If you’re “like a brother” to her you’re gonna find yourself being texted for relationship advice.
 If you actually reply to those text you are a better man than me. You probably gonna find yourself in malls holding bags for her or telling her if those jeans make her ass look big.
Meanwhile her boyfriend at his sidebitch house playing Madden 25. Back in high school you went over to her house and her parents didn’t even trip when y’all closed the door? Smh poor soul, parents prolly thought you was gay you was so deep in the friend zone. The beautiful thing about the friend zone tho is you can’t be in it if you ain’t that good friend.
You been tryna see what shorty taste like for a awhile now.. But she ain’t even let you get a whiff of it. You realize you’re in hell aka the friendzone. You got 2 choices, get the fuck up outta there or keep letting her call you her “brother.” Only a lame would accept this and stay in it… Now you’re probably asking, how do I get out of this?
Try dropping a few hints here & there that platonic friendship really isn’t what you’re looking for cause you’re not a homosexual. Usually ladies will try to laugh this off and say “You so crazy.” After that move on to the next step, which is not showing the bitch attention. You texting her back mad fast while the boyfriend ain’t texted her in 3 days. Coincidence? I think not man. Just let her text you first, text back, & when she texts again don’t even respond. Everybody knows the longer it takes you to reply, the quicker she’ll let you get knee deep in them guts. Now if that don’t work, try chilling with her friends.. Women are jealous & emotional creatures. If she notices you heyboo’n her best friend she gonna get possessive cause even though she won’t even let you smell the box you still “her’s.” This makes no God damn sense at all! After trying these 3 easy tasks, you should have effectively juked ya way out the friendzone… But if not, just text her and tell her you wanna eat her out. She either gonna let you or call you a creep, but at least you won’t be that queer in the friendzone.
Avoiding The Friendzone:
Now u see how to detect the friend zone and how to escape it. Time to show u guys how to avoid it altogether. Avoiding the friend zone is a crutial skill all men (and women alike) should have.
The friend zone is sorta like So So Def Records nothing good has ever come from it.
The first thing u need to do to avoid the “Bestie” zone is let her know your intentions up front. Im not saying text her “hey i wanna beat” but sometimes u have to text the girl “hey i want to beat” Critical gem: DONT LET HER TALK TO YOU ABOUT PROBLEMS WITH NO OTHER GUYS. i don’t care who it is. If she text you talking bout “my Bf is in the hospital” text back “chill girl u know i ain’t tryna hear u talk about no other guys except for me” Best Friends give relationship advice, I Don’t.

Remember you don’t have to be nice to her.. Matter fact not being nice is in your best interest. Ever heard the saying “nice guys finish last?” Well this phrase was coined and created by light skin women and has seemed to be embraced by them all.. So don’t be that guy.

Another thing to keep in mind is she is a women and she doesn’t know what she wants. So leaving the decision up to her on what your relationship status with her is… not a good idea. See it’s a well known fact that women are as indecisive as Dwight Howard during free agency.

Example: You ever get the girl and then she try to Friend-zone you? I have and trust me its one of the most confusing conversations you will ever have. This is a classic h** move though this like the Kansas City Shuffle for h***. And your best bet is to count your losses my guy let her go… If she want a friend she can use her imagination. So all in all be assertive… Don’t give any relationship advice.. And cut the nice guy act and you too can stay friend zone free.

Here are Some Major Key-Notes 

- TEXT HER AND DON’T CALL, DON’T EVEN CALL HER BY ANY CUTE TERMINOLOGY AND DON'T DROP ANY COMPLIMENTS, JUST STAY NEUTRAL.

- IF SHE CALLS YOU A FRIEND OR BROTHER JUST IGNORE IT AND DON'T SIT AROUND THINKING ABOUT HER, MAKE PLANS ON HOW TO GET THAT BOOTY FOR YOURSELF!

- TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL: this could be really difficult but you just have to man up and tell her how you feel.it could help her realise and also decide if she wants to loose you or keep you as a boyfriend!

- IF IT FAILS TRY MOVING ON AND DON’T LET HER HOLD YOU BACK

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Audio:: Wande Coal ft. Skuki – Aye Dun [Download]

Listen Up to this joint by Wandecoal featuring. Skuki titled ”Aye Dun”. Produced by Shizzi. Enjoy! Download Below


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WIZKID AND DAVIDO REUNITED! (@wizkidayo @iam_davido)

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The widely reported beef between two of Nigeria’s finest pop stars, Wizkid and Davido dates back to the early beginnings of their career with a rivalry that many observers earlier noted would surely get to a head at some point

Recently, the two young trending sensations were spotted together laughing  at Davido’s elder brother’s birthday party, thus raising eyebrows as to whether the rift between them has been done with.

Davido however revealed in an exclusive interview with NET, that they both have settled their differences, and that some very powerful and rich men intervened. He said: ‘It’s all good now, some rich men brought us together and it’s finally resolved.’ NET probed him further on how true the settlement is and Davido reaffirmed his position: ‘It’s officially resolved, no more drama.’ And when asked who the rich people who got involved, he replied thus: ‘Some very powerful men, I can’t say their names, it was like a round table meeting and it’s all good now.’ Unlike Wizkid, who had thundered that there is nothing like collaboration with Davido when the battle was still raging, when asked if there would be a collabo soon, Davido’s simple answer was: ‘Maybe.’ 

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D’Prince – Oga Titus ft. Don Jazzy (@DONJAZZY)

After the buzzing “O.Y.O”,D’Princefeatures Mavin Records bossDon Jazzyon a fresh banging track titled“Oga Titus”.
Listen, download theDon Jazzyproduced track and drop your comments.


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21 Problems Only Women With Big Boobs Understand

I love having big boobs. But that doesn’t mean there isn’t a dark (droopy) side. Here are some common issues facing the busty who walk among us.

1. You can’t wear button down shirts because the buttons gape open and you basically look semi-naked. One time, I realized this was happening 30 minutes into a work meeting. It’s like having spinach in your teeth, but boobs.

2. It’s impossible to find cute bras that fit. All the lacy balconette bras Victoria’s Secret models wear? Look away — because YOU get a giant grandma support bra with two-inch-wide beige straps.

3. No bathing suits fit. Ever. Not one pieces, not two pieces, not red pieces, not blue pieces.

4. People (even those who don’t know you well!) say things to you (even in casual conversation!) like, “Have you ever thought about getting a breast reduction?” No, have you ever thought about getting a nose job? Maybe you could at least turn around and go check your nosiness at the door, then?

5. People ask you if your back hurts. While I realize this is an issue for some women, it’s weird when people assume that something I actually like about my body is a disability.

6. Everyday exercises are basically not possible. There is this much space between my boobs and the floor during a push-up.

7. You have to wear more than one sports bra if you’re going to attempt to work out. Sometimes two, sometimes — UGH — three. Sometimes you wish you could temporarily mummify your boobs just for your workouts.

8. You automatically look sexual in everything you wear. Your average American Eagle V-neck or henley looks cute and casual on medium- and small-busted girls but inevitably looks like some “da club” outfit on you.

9. You look especially sexual in bathing suits. There is soooo much cleavage. Even in a one-piece bathing suit you look like you’re trying to get cast in the Hooters calendar.

10. People ask what size bra you are. Both men and women. This is weird and rude. I don’t go around asking you how much you, like, weigh.

11. Guys pay too much attention to your boobs in bed, as if assuming that big boobs automatically equate to “extremely sensitive clitoris-like pleasure appendages.” Not true.

12. You are constantly bothered by dressing advice for “curvy” figures because the advice is always bullshit. Like that thing about belting things at the waist? You look like you’re presenting your boobs on a platter.

13. You can never wear anything backless. You basically cry while watching the Oscars red carpet, jealous of all the side boob you will never flaunt.

14. You can’t wear any bridesmaids dresses because they’re ALWAYS strapless. Damn you brides and your strapless dress leanings. DAMN YOU.

15. You can’t wear blazers. Because they all gape open at the bottom so that your torso looks like a big bell. That cliché work advice about just throwing on a blazer over your dress for your job interview is, to you, fake.

16. You can only wear bib necklaces. Because long ones dangle off the precipice of your boobs like a cat toy.

17. Cross body bags awkwardly snuggle up to your armpit. Like you’re nursing a baby.

18. You look positively beastly if you’re cut off mid-boob in a photo.

19. You feel special kinship with Kate Upton. She can go right on with her busty self.

20. You always wonder what Christina Hendricks has going on underneath her clothes. Because her rack defies all big boob physics, as you — one owner of big boobs — has come to understand them.

21. You are horrified of the idea of being pregnant because even though you love your big boobs, they are big enough.

(via Cosmopolitan)

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